R/SHIP TALK: HOW DO I CARE FOR MY PARTNER?

 so many people want a caring man or a caring woman in a relationship. Care is an important ingredient in a relationship,if you love someone and you don't care for the person
then the partner won't feel your presence. Some ladies feel their man give them everything they ask for, so what more could he possible need. Care doesn't mean material things alone,its a feeling. Words could change a person but gifts would beautify the person. Everyone has one thing or the other they pass through, though some don't let their feelings get the best of them. So it would take a man that knows, understands, and trusts you as a lady to tell you that emotional part of him,if he thinks you are only interested in the things he has to offer and not the things he passes through to get those things,then he'll resort to keeping it to himself since all she cares about is what he offers her..
I know of some relationships that the guy prefers to share his feeling to his friend(lady) rather than to his girlfriend, because he doesn't get much care from the girlfriend. What is a relationship when there is no communication,when you can't be there when your partner is in need,you only love him when he is buoyant and you don't want to be a part of the hard times.
So many things you can care about, so many ways to check how he is doing even when he is smiling,she doesn't have to force you to care,you could always be her better half.
I believe we all have that emotional part,I believe we could be a part of someone's struggle, I believe in sharing feelings. You might believe you don't have a listening heart but  trust me you might have a caring heart.  Look at your partner and say 'I believe you will be someone great,you could achieve anything you want to achieve,I may or may not be your future partner but I want you to remember this day and by then just smile and say I said so'.
I know it could sound like a fantasy to some people but not every words are meant to be believed by everyone but words stand for millions of years,a sentence could change a bad mood and a few words could beautify a person. Not everyone believes in themselves,some just need you to say it to them. Be a right option,YOU COULD CARE!.

By: subby
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