CHOOSING ONE AND THE CHOSEN ONE

One thing with relationships is that it could get complicated and unsorted. I know some individuals could find it difficult choosing one and also finding the chosen one.
People seek for counsel or advice from friends or counsellors in choosing between a number of guys or ladies. They get into a relationship, then find another guy or lady with an amazing feature or locate to another environment and fall in love with a new guy and by the time they know it becomes a twist and they are entangled with different guys/ladies.
I would agree that there are scenarios where a lady who was very much in love with a guy had to date another guy because she felt he had abandoned her when he left to another environment so she fell in love with the new guy. As life would play its games,the ex boyfriend got back and with the love she had for him,she continued the relationship because he proved he never abandoned her.
In this case,the lady couldn't break up with the new guy because he was there when she felt alone and out of guilt,she continued the relationship. She was confused and couldn't choose between them nor end it with either of them. Love could be complicated at times but one thing that should be known is that no one likes to find out he/she was played even criminals and fraudsters hates to be cheated. With that,we should be careful of the way we take our relationship though the lady might not be aware that she is actually playing a game that could only lead to hurt or bad feelings .

My advice to the lady would be that she should either break up with one and choose the other whom she feels loved and secured with or she should just end both relationships and explain why she did. It might seem very difficult but what's the essence of a road that has no destination. We should be able to take decisions that would lead to the right direction, that is the reason a lady should be able to think like a lady and act like a man.
Love could possibly find its way back and she would later end up with one of them,she would be glad she took the right decision and am very sure the guy would respect her for being a woman of virtue.

As for knowing or finding the chosen one,I would say it's only God that could tell who the chosen one is but at the same time,God listens to the heart. No one wishes to end up with an unrepenting criminal. When you decide to set standards for yourself and you walk in ways that would lead to successful and happy endings,God searches your heart and he would surely give you a crown that would befit your head.
#subby's thoughts#
#relationship talks #

Written by-FOLORUNSO OLASUBOMI
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