TALKS BY SUBBY: 1ST IMPRESSION

An impression is an outward appearance which can produce a vivid image or copy of a person,it has the ability to tell people who you are and the way you live.
 It is quite similar to your behaviour,the way you act and the specific manner you conduct yourself. There are some feelings you get just by meeting with some people,your behavior can easily show the kind of person you are though some people try to hide who they are and pretend to be what they are not but since its your behavior; your manner of acting no matter how you try to hide it, people close to you will still get to find out.
The way you speak,the way you dress,the manner in which you present yourself,the way you relate with people and most importantly 'the Way you address people' can actually create an image of who you are or who you would be.

Meeting with you for the first time,some people can guess who you are which can be based on probability,you might be wrong or right because there are some people who easily have mood-swing,they can be so cheerful and nice at a time and in another minute be so uncomfortable with the people around them. Not like we don't have our quiet time but there should be a way we react when we want to be alone not by making others uncomfortable. If the way I met you for the first time made me so uncomfortable or your reaction was not pleasant enough, not accommodating . I would still picture you that way and even though you were cheerful and fun when next am with you,I would be surprised and try to limit the way I interact with you because I would be careful not to get you angry.
We can say the impression you create can limit the way people interact with you and if you are the type that cannot relate well with others then you might find it hard to develop socially. There are so many things you gain by relating or interacting with others even though you have lots of experiences,you would always need wisdom and ideas form others.
Why some people might find it difficult to interact with others:

* BACKGROUND: This is a factor that can really affect a person's relationship with others,they find it hard to relate with others due to the fact that their growing up was isolated,the didn't have the opportunity to associate with people. They were not allowed to go for any social events,hang out with friends in the environment or to make friends at school.


That kind of a person would find it hard to relate with people because  they didn't have knowledge about socialising,they only get knowledge from the limited things around them. So they have this strange reaction to people's behaviour and they at times cannot blend in though some pick up very fast,they cultivate the habit of good relationship with others while some try to blend in and fall into wrong hands,they end up relating with the bad set of people,their mind-set becomes manipulated and they get influenced negatively.

#Relationship talks#

Written by- FOLORUNSO OLASUBOMI.

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