We all judge people everyday without even noticing it,,thats fine i think,but what are your next thoughts after you notice it,,our bodies are incapable of total control over our mind,,the same way we cant totally break the wind
,,our mind is in a vast void thats exceeds the restriction our body proffers,,its like the mind makes a suggestion,and its up to us to accept the offer,,but weakness is when we hide under this cover,,your mind is your own,dont let it take over,,but the fact is that,our mind is just a projection of ourselves..a projection of our weaknesses,our flaws,our limits and all other attributes on our dusty shelves,,
To say your mind to yourself is easy,to live with it is even easier,,coz when we judge ourselves,they aint nobody better,,we put ourselves on the side that is safer,,we are gods when we judge ourselves,and gods humans cant conquer,,its easier to see the fault in an unknown person because we know little about them,,maybe the details are even obvious,but we chose to omit them,,you see a physically impaired girl,the thought comes that she is impaired,,that thought can be repaired,,only if you choose ya next thought wisely,,""but look at how she's walking is easier to think of than she's still beautiful all the same",,they say live,laugh and love,but whats there in the retarded humour you gain,,a mad man is mad,we know,but if it appeases you,then you insane,,
We all different in our own specs and circle,,what i do,what i need,differ based on our very own mantle,,but irrespective of that,we shouldnt put ourselves in bad positions,,you love your make ups,your exposed cleavages and your extra-tight pants,you love the attractions,,but all this come to people in different relations,,we all dont see through the same eyes,,its hard for me to compare my view with yours even though we see from the same height,,its just blue and mushy,to me it might be beautiful and peaceful,we just still talking of the same sky,,dont make people see you as horrid just because you want to get on your social sites and say "haters gon hate",,or "how i live my life aint yours to decide",,...if i study for a diploma,dont think its because i aint brainy enough to get a degree,,have you considered the fact that my purse is tilted to a certain degree?,,
No one is perfect,but we all try to achieve that stage whereby we close to it,,we know we not perfect,and that should in its own give us peace,,but achieving that status by bringing others down,aint it,,because if i think everybody is bad,then i must be the only good one,,when in turn the criteria's we judge with are ours alone,,we use the imperfect nature of others to achieve our own perfect state,because its the easy way out..staying blind to the fact that the more we dont accept our mistakes,they become our biggest flaws,,the only thing that accepts pride is the floor,,because when you fall,you fall,,judge not,even if you will,make sure their actions are in total contradiction to the way of light.....
Because she is not pretty facially,that ont mean she isnt beautiful,,beauty is a concept of the mind
,and the mind is the King of judging,,so how do i appeal to peoples thoughts when they define whats attracting,,to them and to them only..most of the people i judged wrongly turned out to be different from who i thought they'll be,,because the world we live in today gives ME little chances to be ME,,well the few who i judged rightly,hmmmm had actually judged their selves before hand and left me with the obvious,,our mind is always curious,,wanting to know,acts tough like it wanna know deeper,but it judges off the surface,,everybody is an actor,and the world is just another big circus,,of minds released,emotions held backs,thoughts going astray,and revolving round this jagged up circle,,
Appearances can be quite deceiving and doesn't leave room for you to make jest of others,,we see his blings,his kicks and many of the things he orders,,my shirts are the same,they sum up to a few,you can even name them in order,,the rich tend to judge the poor,and mistake showing off for giving out alms,,I've seen poor people give more than the rich,,because they give from the depths of their pockets and hearts reach,,and they stretch out even longer hands,,but we don't see those hands as giving,we see them as wanting to receive,,
Live then boils down to us doing unto others what we want them to do unto us,,do we want them to judge us,speak ill of us,lie to us,stab us or judge us for who we see ourselves and who we potray our being as,,everybody loves to ride a horse,but am not sure we would want a horse to ride us(no pun intended),,
Live,laugh,love....respect...
Because the way we see others is the way we define ourselves,,its the way we project ourselves,,its us opening up the our wounds or our dead skeletons shelf...I've judged people...countless number of people...based on how they make me see them and how i choose to....and I've LEARNT that.....
"If someone isn't what others want them
to be, the others become angry. Everyone
seems to have a clear idea of how other
people should lead their lives, but none
about his or her own"
Paulo Coelho , The Alchemist
Leave the guy on dread,the lady with the excessive make_up,the boy with a big head,the father with no child,the doctor that smokes or the lecturer with a tattoo,the man with one leg and that sister with no manner of approach alone....at the end,you'll be asked how you lived yours,and how it influenced others..not how you JUDGED others so you'll be justified
PEACE
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