CHECKING YOUR RELATIONSHIP STATUS

Love develops gradually,it starts and then it upgrades. I would say this aspect of relationship is basically for those engaged in a serious relationship,couples who see each other more than what or where they are presently.

So many relationships started with ' I love you,will you date me?' Or 'please give me a chance to be with you'. In most cases,the man makes the proposal and the promises except for cases which the lady couldn't hold or keep it to herself and took the bolder step. I have heard so many people say 'love fades,many promises unfulfilled and broken hearts. One thing is "we are not held back by the love we didn't receive in the past but by the love  we're not extending in the present".
It's not by the love you showed in the past,are you still extending that love,the promise?or you think u have showered enough love,love is continuous,it needs to be watered everyday,that is the beauty of a good relationship.
Love keeps on when you try to do something different, so many thinks on how to push the relationship forward but at times we get so busy and those ideas just find a way out of our mind. Adding value to a relationship is not for others to see or comment, it is more about keeping it real. It's not by words alone,words are like meaningless leaves that falls from a tree,it takes showing love.
Make contributions,help your date with so many things,contribute to his/her progress be it academically,spiritually, financially even physically, it has to be an obvious change and growth.
Like a very good friend of mine would say" if I don't learn how to take care of my girlfriend,how would I learn to take care of my wife". There are lot of mistakes but the most important thing is to learn from it. Not every relationship leads to marriage, in fact just few leads to marriage,things happen,things change,unplanned issues. "Live everyday like its your last",its actually correct,we should live in the moment but have a great perspective. Take a step in changing your relationship status, you might be glad you did.

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