Hey guys, it’s just been two days but it seems like a long time. So let’s talk truth and reality and I don’t want us to be biased in judgment. How does it feel to be single?
How does it feel to just have your self all to yourself. Honestly some will say “it’s the best feeling in the world” while some will argue that, it's not cool. Some things do influence that judgement. One of those things is experience which often times is in favor of those who support being single. Well anyway here is the thing, being single is a beautiful feeling in itself. You just have to see it. A lot of us are blind to this wonderful period in time just because we wish to have what others have or better still, we wish to restore the feeling of companionship you once had but lost. But my friend lets talk this out, why is everyone born single, why were we all not born into intimate non family companionship. Simple! There is suppose to be a time to prepare for that companion stage. This is no cliché write up on “tips to remain single and enjoy” or the “stay out of relationships” master piece by heart broken babes and dudes. But here is the thing, being single gives you time for yourself, it helps you to master yourself. According to the dictionary meaning, being single- means to be complete in itself by implication, that so called lonely period of singleness is a blessing in disguise. An opportunity for you to take good care of yourself, make yourself happy, it gives you time to do those things that you always wished you could do (not the naughty things by the way “lol”). And you know the greatest thing about being single? You answer to only yourself and to no boyfriend or girlfriend, so you have nothing to fear in relation to your actions with other people. So transition, feel singleness, enjoy singleness and most importantly, while in your singleness prepare for that wonderful relationship you wanna have. But remember, singleness is the best opportunity life presents you for self mastery, never pass it up! not for the world! Take care guys .
How does it feel to just have your self all to yourself. Honestly some will say “it’s the best feeling in the world” while some will argue that, it's not cool. Some things do influence that judgement. One of those things is experience which often times is in favor of those who support being single. Well anyway here is the thing, being single is a beautiful feeling in itself. You just have to see it. A lot of us are blind to this wonderful period in time just because we wish to have what others have or better still, we wish to restore the feeling of companionship you once had but lost. But my friend lets talk this out, why is everyone born single, why were we all not born into intimate non family companionship. Simple! There is suppose to be a time to prepare for that companion stage. This is no cliché write up on “tips to remain single and enjoy” or the “stay out of relationships” master piece by heart broken babes and dudes. But here is the thing, being single gives you time for yourself, it helps you to master yourself. According to the dictionary meaning, being single- means to be complete in itself by implication, that so called lonely period of singleness is a blessing in disguise. An opportunity for you to take good care of yourself, make yourself happy, it gives you time to do those things that you always wished you could do (not the naughty things by the way “lol”). And you know the greatest thing about being single? You answer to only yourself and to no boyfriend or girlfriend, so you have nothing to fear in relation to your actions with other people. So transition, feel singleness, enjoy singleness and most importantly, while in your singleness prepare for that wonderful relationship you wanna have. But remember, singleness is the best opportunity life presents you for self mastery, never pass it up! not for the world! Take care guys .
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